The Truth About The Girl You Call Hard To Get

She let her head rest on his chest. It had become a regular occurrence. She waited until she knew he was asleep before she snuck out for the last time. She grabbed her shoes and carried them in one hand as she headed towards her car. Even though she slept in his bed, she was never going to be his.

Some girls are built differently. Theyre not ready or willing to think about forever when they have so many other things filling their lives. Maybe they dont believe in love. Maybe its because they were hurt bad before. Maybe theyre just not interested in falling in love right now. Either way, theyre not going to be the one who you wake up with in the morning. Its a quick rendezvous that will leave your head spinning and wondering where the hell you found her.

Shes not trying to hurt you. Shell always be upfront and honest. Shell tell you the truth even when you dont want to hear it. Shes not going to be the type of girl thats around forever unless you can show her something shes never seen before.

Shes not going to be able to stay put unless you make her feel things, real things, she never thought existed.

Otherwise shes going to hit the road. Shes going to be around long enough for you to wonder exactly what the hell you had managed to get yourself into. She cares about you but she cares about herself more. Shes needed to be on her own for a while and itll take a special person to make her realize she can rely on more than just herself.

When she meets her person, the one thats going to make her stop dead in her tracks, shes not going to know what hit her.

Suddenly everything she never needed becomes everything she wants. Shes going to fight it with everything she has. Shes not sure what being settled is but she knows she doesnt want it.

Shes always known that when she found someone who felt like home it was going to scare the absolute shit out of her. She was going to hate the fact that she was turning into those gushy, love sick people she had always made fun of. Her friends are going to notice shes different. Theyre going to notice that when she talks about him a small smile creeps across her face. Every guy before was a nonchalant shrug but this guy is a full blown smile.

Shes going to let herself think about the future. The future she never wanted to share with anyone except maybe a dog. She is going to finally figure out why every one of her friends liked having a plus one at big events. She was going to experience that once in a lifetime feeling that shows her what shes been missing out on.

She wont show you right away her cards that shes holding so close to her chest. Its something shes never had to do before. Its because all of the guys before were temporary. Shes never been the type to just let someone in. They have to earn a spot in her life. She never wanted to be this way but life has taught her she needs to trust actions and only just listen to words.

So maybe this girl is hard to get but when you do get her shes going to show you more love than youve ever known. Shes never done anything half ass and thatll be obvious. When she slows down and realizes shes met her match, shes going to blow your mind.

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