Stop wasting time with the guy that shuts you out when he’s in a shitty mood, even if it has nothing to do with you. The guy that will walk past you like you’re a ghost and give you one-word answers, like you’re nothing to him, even thoughhe acted like you wereyesterday when his day was going well.
Stop wasting time with the guy that had a nastyex-girlfriend and takes it out on you, even though you aren’t anything like her. The guy that plays the victim act, that acts like he’s damaged, andrepays your kindness by telling you he has too much baggage from his last relationship, that he’s not ready to let anyone else inside.
Stop wasting time with the guy that makes you wonder if your phone is malfunctioning, because you haven’t gotten a text back from himyet, even though you messagedhim two hours ago and you can see that he’s been active on Facebook overthe last twentyminutes.
Stop wasting time with the guy that gets you pumped to spend time with him, and then tells you that he’s sorry but he forgot that you made plans, or that something unexpectedlycame up and he has to cancel. Every. Damn. Time.
Stop wasting time with the guy that only gives you bits and pieces of his life story, even though you’ve opened up to him about everything from your family secrets to your childhood pets, everything from your darkest fears to your brightest passions.
Stop wasting time with the guy that can’t keep his stories straight. The guy thatbe lying to you, because he gives you different ‘facts’ whenever you talk to him and then swears that you must be remembering wrong. He tries to convinceyou that the crazy one.
Stop wasting time with the guy that calls you two, three, four times when he wants to see you, because he won’t take no for an option. The guy that does a complete 180 when initiate contact by ignoringevery one of yourtexts, because he only cares about what wants in the moment.
Stop wasting time with the guy that primarilytalks to you through Snapchat, because he isn’t interested inhaving a meaningful conversation with you — he only wants to get a glance atthe outfit that you’re wearing and to test the waters to see if you’llsend nudes.
Stop wasting time with the guy that only posts partyphotos on Instagram with a red cupin his hand, the guy that brags about how much he can chugwithout blacking out, the guy thatonly contactsyou when he’s already fivebeersdeep.
Stop wasting time with the guy that acts like you’re committing a sinwhenever you mention anotherboy, even though he posts selfieswith his arms around strangersand interrupts your conversation to check his beeping phonethat has pretty girls on the other line.
Stop wasting time with the guy that looks into the mirror to check his hair more than he looks into your eyes, because he’s more concerned with the way the world views him than the way that you view him. The guy that he’s hot and relies on his looks to get him through life.
Stop wasting time with the guy that doesn’t seem to care whether you stay in his life or not. The guy that makes you stay up when you should be sleeping, replaying your day totry to figure out whether he likes you or not — whether he cares or not.
Stop it. Because you deserve so much more than guy.